A smile to their
     Still remember last year, the "high-end access," is an interview with Bill Gates, most of what he can not forget the experience of success, he said this quote: "I am successful is because all of them immersed in the failure of the pain, I have already started a new design. When all of them enjoy the joy of success, I have already failed attempts. As a Chinese saying: 'victory is not arrogance, failure is not hungry', I victory and the like will not be knocked down, but also a failure and regret will not be destroyed, there is more than just a smile. "
    This can be described as classic. Real life, Bill Gates is to do so, when all of Microsoft's software viruses was almost nothing left, the danger of being broken, he laughed and had the face of the virus, three days after Bill Gates developed by the new generation of antivirus software to save everything. In the latest Microsoft System w indow s - xp successfully developed, the Bill Gates easily smiled, the beginning of another system.
   The world's richest man and the difference between ordinary people is more than the face of his heart smile.
    Laughter is also a pessimist and the optimist's a huge difference. Edison's filament in the election material so experienced the failure of thousands of times. After each failure, his aides are annoyed look, and Edison is said with a smile: "What is troubling, the failure of the first, it proves that we rule out the possibility of a wrong answer, a step away from the success of the past!"
   Do not look down on you, they smile, a smile to the contempt of the difficulties you courage, a smile will change your life. When the life of the mountain like a huge pressure on you, give you strength and self-confident smile is.
   In fact, not difficult to smile, bend mouth, and that is laughter. But the difficulty is a laugh from the heart. In the face of setbacks and unfortunate days must laugh in a calm; in a very melancholy mood of the day, smiling in a number of self-confidence should increase, not to be understood in the days to come by misunderstanding, we should add a trace of laughter in debauchery . Laughter is not difficult, it is difficult to grasp the scale laughing.
   Do not complain about life too much to its own suffering, too many twists and turns, and too much pain to himself a smile! Let you in a calm and less formal; increase the number of happy, less sad; plus some self-confidence, by a trace of inferiority.
   Not too much to face their own, do not be too indulgent, not to be too mean, and the hands should be holding the balance of life, to find their own benchmark smile.
   After all, it is not hard to smile.
給自己一個微笑
還記得去年看《高端訪問》,采訪的是比爾·蓋茨,最令人不能忘記的就是他成功的經(jīng)驗,他說過這樣一段話：“我成功是因為當(dāng)所有的人都沉浸在失敗的痛楚中,我卻早已開始了新的設(shè)計.當(dāng)所有的人都享受在成功的喜悅中,我卻早已嘗試著失敗.中國有句名言：‘勝不驕,敗不餒’,我之所以不被勝利和喜歡擊倒,也不會被失敗和懊惱摧殘,這里面只是一個微笑而已.”
這段話可稱為經(jīng)典.現(xiàn)實生活中比爾·蓋茨也是這樣做的,當(dāng)微軟的全部軟件幾乎被病毒侵害得所剩無幾,危在旦夕時,他面對著病毒一笑而過,三天之后由比爾·蓋茨研制成的新一代殺毒軟件拯救了一切.而在微軟的最新系統(tǒng)w indow s - xp研制成功后,比爾·蓋茨輕松地笑笑,開始了又一個系統(tǒng)的研制.
世界首富和常人不同之處,是臉上多了份發(fā)自內(nèi)心的微笑.
笑也是悲觀者與樂觀者的一個巨大區(qū)別.愛迪生在選做燈絲的材料時,經(jīng)歷了上千次失敗.每一次失敗后,他的助手都神情懊惱,而愛迪生卻笑著說：“有什么令人煩惱的,失敗一次,就證明我們排除了一個錯誤答案,離成功近了一步!”
你千萬別小看這些微笑,微笑給你蔑視困難的勇氣,微笑會改變你的一生.當(dāng)生活像一座巨大的山壓在你身上,給你力量和自信的就是微笑.
其實笑并不難,嘴角上翹,那就是笑.但難的是一種發(fā)自內(nèi)心的笑.在面臨種種挫折和不幸的日子里,笑里必須多一份坦然；在心情極為憂郁的日子里,笑里應(yīng)該增加一些自信,在不被理解受誤解的日子里,笑里就要加一絲放蕩.笑不難,難的是把握笑的標(biāo)尺.
不要抱怨生活給了自己太多的磨難、太多的曲折和太多的痛苦,給自己一份微笑!讓你多一份坦然,少一份拘謹；增加一些快樂,減少一些悲傷；加一些自信,減一絲自卑.
面對自己不要過于苛求,不要過于放縱,更不要太吝嗇,手里應(yīng)該拿著生活的天平,來尋找自己微笑的標(biāo)尺.
畢竟微笑不難.