英語翻譯
What are some of the differences between love and infatuation?Genuine love is more likely to involve a process of “growing” in love rather than “falling” in love.This may sound terribly unromantic to some who are used to hearing talk about “falling in love” or being “head over heels in love”.This “falling” is often infatuation,and the sheer emotion of “falling in love” often blinds a person to the imperfections of the loved one.We tend to think of the loved one as “perfect”,“ideal”,or some other divine image.Real love sees the total person----both the perfection and the imperfection.Infatuation,then,is a sudden,emotional sense that one has discovered the “perfect” lover.On the other hand,love realizes imperfections and grows with the acceptance of imperfections.
Love leads a person to a feeling of security and trust in the loved one.It usually involves a feeling of mutual benefit arising from the new relationship.We are able to solve our problems together is the feeling of love,rather than “Please love me because I need you.”