There are several important elements necessary to maintain a good friendship 要想維持友誼以下幾方面是必不可少的了
Listen 善于傾聽
The ability to really listen to another is a cornerstone of good friendship.It helps you to understand your friend and his/her feelings,as well as shows that you really care.傾聽是友誼的基石 他有助于你更好的了解你的朋友同時又表示你在關(guān)心你的朋友
2.Spend quality time with your friend 與朋友相聚
No relationship can be satisfying without quality time spend together.Make time for your friend,schedule get togethers.沒相聚就沒友誼 所以抽點時間與朋友一起聚聚吧
3.Be forgiving 寬容
There is not even one person in the world who is perfect.You know your own shortcomings,so don't expect perfection from others.I'm not saying that you should always accept a wrong doing on your friend's part.Tell them when you didn't like something and be always ready to make up afterward.Don't hold grudges in your heart.It will help your friend to be long-suffering with you as well.人無完人,任何人都有自己的缺點所以就不要要求別人完美 我并不是叫你一味的縱容朋友的錯誤 相反你應(yīng)該明確的告訴你的朋友 不要藏在心底 這對你和你們自己的友誼都是有好處的
4.Admit your faults 勇于承認自己的錯誤
In every friendship there will be conflict sooner or later.When it comes,often the wrong is on both sides Admit your wrongs instead of just pointing out the wrongs of another person involved.This will help you both to keep the line of communication open and strengthen your friendship
朋友相處遲早都會產(chǎn)生沖突的,但產(chǎn)生誤會和沖突時雙方都是有責任的 我認為勇于承認自己的過錯比追究責任更有助于解決問題和增進友誼