IQ contributes only 20% to life success — the rest comes from emotional intelligence (EQ).
By Daniel Goleman
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The IQ contributes only 20% to life success.The rest is the result of emotional intelligence,including factors like the ability to motivate oneself,persistence,impulse control,mood regulation,empathy and hope.IQ and emotional intelligence are not opposing competencies.They work separately.It is possible to be intellectually brilliant but emotionally inept.This causes many life problems.Yale psychologist Peter Salovey cites
five major areas of emotional intelligence:
1.Self-Awareness —knowing one’s emotions.
2.Managing emotions —handling feelings so they are appropriate.
3.Motivation —marshalling emotions in service of a goal.
4.Recognizing emotions in others —empathy,which is the fundamental people skill.
5.Handling relationships —skill in managing emotions in others.