As the development of information technology,internet has come into every aspect of people’s lives.It has been an important way for them to get information,at the same time,changing people’s behaviors and thinking.More and more children are entering the virtual world.They learn knowledges,exchange thinkings and get entertainment.But what we can see is that for lack of the self-contral ability and the inentify ability,many children get addicted in it,as a result,greatly affecting their social relations.
There are several phenomena of the problem.First,children don’t have enough communication with their parents,frends and teachers as a great many of time is spent on playing games,sending emails and chatting on the internet.As a result,they tend to build a sence of isolation and loneliness.Oppositely,they can get the sence of achievement and satisfaction and even the value of exist in the virtual world.So they get more and more addicted to the net.Second,these children lack the methods of communicating with others.When they are shocked,there will arise problems.For examble,when they are omipotent heroes in their games,but chill in reality,it is eary for them to use excessive and unpractical ways to deal with the hard problems they meet in reality.The other problem is that some bad information on the net,such as violence,will affect children’s behaviors.Usually children are not old enough to get the ability to distinguish the differences of reality and virtual,so what behaviors they have seen on the net may be used in their reality lives to solve problems.Adolescent crimes may engendar.
The bad effects of internet on children’s social relations can not be solved only by controling the time of using internet.There are many factors of this issue.Many of them are addicted to the net because the relations with their parents,friends or teachers are not matey.As a result,it need mutual efforts of families,schools and the whole network to solve this problem.