代溝 如今,父母和子女之間經(jīng)常缺乏溝通.子女經(jīng)常抱怨父母過(guò)時(shí)了;而父母并不贊同子女的言行.于是一個(gè)很大的代溝就產(chǎn)生了.產(chǎn)生代溝的原因有很多.子女希望過(guò)比父母允許的更獨(dú)立的生活:自由的選擇自己的朋友;在學(xué)校里自由的選擇自己的社團(tuán);自由的描繪自己的將來(lái);自由的支配自己的花費(fèi).當(dāng)然年輕的子女們也希望能夠得到父母的理解.但是并不是大多數(shù)的父母都能夠理解他們的孩子,他們認(rèn)為教育他們的后代樹(shù)立傳統(tǒng)的信仰是他們應(yīng)有的責(zé)任,他們希望子女在家里能夠孝順,在學(xué)校能夠好好學(xué)習(xí).于是,不理解就往往從父母打算干涉子女的日常生活中產(chǎn)生了.
我認(rèn)為:父母和子女間的代溝問(wèn)題可以通過(guò)雙方相互理解來(lái)共同解決.
Generation Gap
Nowadays,there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children.Children always complain that their parents are out of date,while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do.Thus,a big generation gap is formed.
The gap remains wide for many reasons.Children want to be free to choose their own friends,select their own classes in school,plan their own future,earn and spend their own money,and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow.Also,young children wish to be understood by their parents,but most parents don’t quite understand their children.They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs.They want them to be obedient and do well in school.Therefore,misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
In my opinion,most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.