英語翻譯
Self-confident people don’t undermine their own worth by comparing themselves with others,only to conclude that they aren’t “good enough”.They appreciate their strengths and accomplishments and can acknowledge,without embarrassment,their weaknesses.They don’t live in the “victim” position.Even if something really bad has occurred,they turn it into a challenge,remembering to be grateful for the little things in life.
Self-confident people let the world know who they are.If they want something badly enough,they know they have every right to “go for it.” Yet,they also know that the path will rarely be easy.Mistakes,blunders and failures are part of the learning process.They seek to learn from their mistakes and do not waste time torturing themselves over what “could have been”.
Self-confident people are not obstinate people.If they have an idea about something and it differs from the way another person is thinking about it,they will usually try to look at it from that person’s point of view,see why it makes sense to them.Yet,a confident person’s sense of self is grounded.It does not blow in the wind.Their ideas do not fluctuate based on what others deem are important.
I hope these insights are helpful to you.If so,perhaps one day you will be able to say what the actress Phyllis Rashad once said,simply but eloquently,” I am just myself and who I am is a lot.”