Sand and stone
The story goes that two friends were walking through the desert.During some point of the journey they had an argument,and one friend slapped the other one in the face.The one who got slapped was hurt,but without saying anything,wrote in the said:” Today my best friend slapped me in the face.”
They kept on walking until they found an oasis,where they decided to take a bath.The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning,but the friend saved him.After he recovered from the near drowning,he wrote on stone:Today my best friend saved my life.
The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him,after I hurt you,you wrote in the sand and now you write on a stone.why?
The other friend replied:When someone hurts us,we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away .But when someone does something good for us,we must engrave it in stone where no wind ever erases it.
Learn to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your benefits in stone.They say it takes a minute to find a special person,an hour to appreciate him,a day to love him,but an entire life to forget him.
Send this phrase to the people you will never forget .It is a short message to let them know that you will never forget them.
Take the time to live.
傷害只寫在沙地上
兩個(gè)朋友在荒漠里穿行,途中他們發(fā)上了爭執(zhí)；其中一個(gè)人單了另一位一個(gè)耳光.被達(dá)的人非常傷心,但他什么也沒說,只是在沙地上寫到：“今天,我最好的朋友打了我一個(gè)耳光.”
他們繼續(xù)往前走,發(fā)現(xiàn)了一片綠洲,他們決定在那里洗個(gè)澡.結(jié)果,被打的那位陷進(jìn)了泥潭,眼看就要被淹死,結(jié)果他的朋友救了他.恢復(fù)過來都他在石頭上寫到：“今天,我最好的朋友救了我的命.”
那位打他并救了他的朋友問：“為什么我傷害你時(shí),你在沙地上寫下來,而現(xiàn)在卻在石頭上刻下來呢?”
被救的那位答到：“受到傷害時(shí),我們應(yīng)該把他寫在沙地上,寬恕之風(fēng)會將它抹平.可是受人恩惠時(shí),我們應(yīng)該把它刻在石頭上,任何風(fēng)雨也不會把它擦掉.”
學(xué)會將所受的傷害寫在沙子上,把所的的恩德刻在石頭上.有人這樣說,找到一個(gè)特別的人只需要用一分鐘,欣賞他需要用一小時(shí),喜歡他需要用一天,但忘掉他卻需要用一生的時(shí)間.
把這句話送給那些你永遠(yuǎn)無法忘記的人吧.這段短短的話能讓他們知道你永遠(yuǎn)不會忘記他們.
此生不忘.
守株待兔
宋國有個(gè)農(nóng)夫正在田里翻土.突然,他看見有一只野兔從旁邊的草叢里慌慌張張地竄出來,一頭撞在田邊的樹墩子上,便倒在那兒一動也不動了.農(nóng)民走過去一看：兔子死了.因?yàn)樗寂艿乃俣忍?把脖子都撞折（shé）了.農(nóng)民高興極了,他一點(diǎn)力氣沒花,就白撿了一只又肥又大的野兔.他心想；要是天天都能撿到野兔,日子就好過了.從此,他再也不肯出力氣種地了.每天,他把鋤頭放在身邊,就躺在樹墩子跟前,等待著第二只、第三只野兔自己撞到這樹墩子上來.世上哪有那么多便宜事啊.農(nóng)民當(dāng)然沒有再撿到撞死的野兔,而他的田地卻荒蕪了.
Song is state-owned farmer Tian Li turns the soil in course of.He sees that the patch of grass having one hare to comply with near by flees out li a hurry-skurry ,a tree bumping against by the field just but keeps self's body unmoved in there on the block of wood or stone abruptly,.The peasant once takes a look on that along past:Rabbit has died.The speed running because of it is very quick ,neck is all bumped against having broken.The peasant is extremely happy ,his little physical strength has not spent,will have picked up one both fertilizer and big hare vainly.He thinks of; If being able to find a hare every day,the day has been in easy circumstances.Herefrom,he is unwilling to put up physical strength having cultivated land again also.He readjusts oneself to a certain extent with the hoe in at one's side every day,in front of lying right away in tree block of wood or stone,be waiting for second third ,of hare self comes up to bump against this tree block of wood or stone.How cheap which has the so thing in the world.The peasant certainly has not collected to again bump against the dead hare ,his farmland has lain waste but but.