Making friends is a skill .Like most skills ,it improves with practice.If you want to meet people and make friends ,you must be willing to take some action .You must first go where there are people .You won’t make friends staying home alone.
交朋友是一種技巧.最喜歡的技能,它可以改善與實(shí)踐.如果你想找人交朋友,你必須愿意采取行動(dòng).你必須先去哪里人.你不會(huì)讓朋友獨(dú)自留在家里.
Join a club or group .Taking with those who like the same thing as you do is much easier .Or join someone in some activity.
加入一個(gè)俱樂部或團(tuán)體.與那些喜歡的一樣,你會(huì)更容易些.或者參加一些活動(dòng).
Many people are nervous when talking to new people.After all,meeting strangers means facing the unknown.And it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown.
許多人都緊張,和陌生人說話.畢竟,遇見陌生人意味著面對未知.這是人類的本性,有一點(diǎn)不舒服的未知.
Most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doublts about ourselves.We imagine other people are judging us ---finding us too tall or too short ,too this o r too .But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way .Try to accept yourself as you are ,and try to put the other person at ease .You’ll both feel more comfortable .
我們最擔(dān)心面對新的人從doublts自己.我們想像其他人都來看我們,發(fā)現(xiàn)我們太高或太短了,太這太.但不要忘記,他們必須感受到同樣的方式.試著去接受你自己,試著讓對方放松.你會(huì)覺得更舒服.
Try to act self – confident even if you don’t feel that way when you enter a room full of stranges ,such as a new classroom,walk tall and straight,look directly at other people ,and smile.
試著做自己–自信,即使你不覺得這樣當(dāng)你進(jìn)入一個(gè)房間充滿了陌生人,如一個(gè)新的教室,走挺拔,直接看著別人,和微笑.
If you see someone you’d like to speak to,say something .Don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
如果你看到某人你想說的,說點(diǎn)什么.不要等到別人開始談話.