My first sticky situation
In our life,we will always come around some tough problems which we find them difficult to deal with.Especially when we are confronted with some awkward occasions,we often don't know what to do,letting alone coping with a sticky situation for the first time.Still I can remember that my first sticky situation was really a stern experience that could be traced back to my childhood when i was just ten-year-old.
At the age of ten,i couldn't understand all the complicated things about this vast world and i didn't know how to say something properly in a proper occasion.One day,i was visited to my friend's birthday party.I was willing to go,of course,but my mother won't allow me to for i left a lot of homework undone.Thus I tried to turn my friend down,yet a little reluctant.Then i talked to my friend and told him,"sorry,i cannot go because i am a good child who would like to do homework at home.Happy birhday and have a good time."At that moment,i didn't realize that i had hurt him and made him feel upset.After that he won't come over to me and say hi,i felt frustrated and annoyed.Another day,i saw him happily talking to a classmate during a break,i felt more annoyed than frustrated,then i went to him and hit him right on his nose.All the classmates were shocked by that scene except him.I asked why he didn't talk to me.After a while I got the answer,"because i also want to be a good child who would like to keep distance from a bookworm."Then i couldn't find any words to counterattack him.
That's my first sticky situation where i couldn't reply my friend in a wise and appropriate way.Moreover, I lost a friend in that occasion.I feel disappointed about that.However,no two persons can be parallel if they can't find a same objective.I won't feel regretful.