How to Live in Harmony with your Roommates
How to Live in Harmony with your Roommates?Everyone has his answer.In my opinion,to Live in Harmony with your Roommates,one should:
Firstly,keep the same pace with roommates.There are usually four people or more in a room.It’s better to have a unified schedule.To maintain the order of the life,everyone should coordinate and abide by the schedule to reduce the disputes.
Secondly,don’t make little “squads” in the dormitory.You should treat every person equally rather than discriminating or isolating someone.We object to establish deep friendship under the cost of sacrificing the friendship’s width and breadth.It’s important to keep balance in the dormitory.
Thirdly,don't invade your roommates' privacy.Everyone has their own secrets and eccentricities.We should not search roommates' privacy.If someone has clearly made a field private,they must have special sensitive to this field and any subject attempting to break into this field will not be appreciated by them.
Fourthly,participate in dormitory’s collective activities actively.The activities of the dormitory is not only a simple activity,but also a way to contact with each other to share feelings.Don't be naive to think collective activity as boring and useless action which wastes time and money,and showing a pair of disparaging appearance for company.In fact,it's all emotional investment,and indispensable.
Fifth,provide help and ask for help.Good roommate relationships is based on mutual help.When roommates meet with difficulties,we should voluntarily help.That’s obvious.So,when we have some trouble,is it appropriate to ask help from roommates?The answer is yes.Because sometimes asking for help show that you trust your roommates,which can deepen your relationship.