也許,你應該學習放松!
Cathy Taylor三個孩子的生活十分繁忙.他們的學校天足夠繁忙.放學后,盡管,Cathy把兩個男孩從足球帶到籃球.當時,她不得不把她的女兒帶到鋼琴若干課.疲倦的孩子直到7 pm而不到家.他們吃一頓迅速的晚飯,而它是家庭作業(yè)的時間.
Taylors是像許多美國人和英國的父母一樣.他們把他們的孩子從活動帶到活動,和試圖到他們的孩子的生活中盡可能地適合.醫(yī)生說許多孩子在很多壓力下面.教師在教室中抱怨教學疲倦的孩子.
大多數孩子參加繼續(xù)教育的俱樂部.活動包括體育運動,語言學問,音樂,和數學類別.有進取心的父母不沒有什么新的東西,但是父母現(xiàn)在似乎推他們的孩子許多更多.父母看見其它做許多事情的孩子,而他們感到他們自己孩子應該做同樣.
Linda Miller,在倫敦三的一名母親,知道有關全部這樣pressure."In一些家庭,當他們十分年輕時,從十分年輕age,"she says."Mothers的競爭星把他們的孩子派遣到各種課.同時,他們總把他們與其它孩子比較.它是瘋狂的.人們不應該如此努力`推他們的孩子”.
綠色的博士Alice同意.她也說當他們是older."Parents時,這些孩子可能發(fā)現(xiàn)為了他們自己想是困難的試圖為了他們計劃他們的孩子的生活.當這些孩子是成年人時,他們可能發(fā)現(xiàn)計劃事情是困難的因為themselves."Parents應該學習給把他們的孩子有一點更多時間他們自己.一方面,孩子需要組織活動.另一方面,他們也需要時間和自由放松,而他們需要時間靠自己做事情.
也許你應該學會放松.
三個孩子的凱西.泰勒三個孩子的生活就很忙,他們在學校已經夠忙了,可是下課后凱西還會把兩個男孩帶去打籃球和踢足球.她還會把女兒帶去上鋼琴課.累壞了的孩子們7點才能到家,他們很快吃完晚飯后有要開始寫家庭作業(yè).
泰勒家的家長和許多英美的家長一樣,他們把孩子從一個活動帶到另一個活動,盡他們所能把孩子的生活添滿.醫(yī)生說很多孩子就生活在很大的壓力下.老師們也抱怨課堂上有太多疲倦的孩子.
大多數孩子都參加課后俱樂部.這些活動包括運動,語言,音樂和數學.
心急的家長現(xiàn)在已經不是什么新鮮事了,但是現(xiàn)在的家長督促得有點太過了.家長看見其他家的孩子參加很多活動,所以他們就覺得他們自己的孩子也應該去參加.
林達.米勒是住在倫敦的一位三個孩子的母親,她就很清楚這中壓力.她說,在一些家庭里,競爭在孩子很小的年齡時就開始了.母親們在孩子很小的時候就把孩子送去參加各種課程,而且還老把他們和其他孩子比較.這是很瘋狂的舉動.人們不該這么硬逼孩子們.
Alice Green博士也同意這個觀點.她還說這些孩子長大后發(fā)現(xiàn)很難對自己的生活進行思考,因為家長過多地為他們計劃了他們的人生.當他們成年后就不會自己計劃自己的人生了.家長應該給孩子多一點屬于他們自己的時間.一方面,孩子們需要組織好的活動,另一方面,他們也需要時間和自由來放松和更多的時間來獨立完成一些事情.
Maybe you should learn to relax!
Life for Cathy Taylor's three children is very busy.Their school days are busy enough.After school,though,Cathy takes the two boys from football to basketball.Then she has to take her daughter to piano lessons.The tired children don't get home until 7 pm.They have a quick supper,and it's time for homework.
The Taylors are like many American and British parents.They take their children from activity to activity,and try to fit as much as possible into their kid's lives.Doctors say many children are under too much pressure.Teachers complain about teaching tired kids in the classroom.
Most children take part in after-school clubs.Activities include sports,language learning,music,and math classes.Pushy parents are nothing new,but now parents seem to push their children a lot more.Parents see other children doing a lot of things,and they feel their own children should do the same.
Linda Miller,a mother of three in London,knows all about such pressure."In some families,competition stars from a very young age,"she says."Mothers send their kids to all kinds of classes when they are very young.And they are always comparing them with other children.It's crazy.People shouldn't push their kids so hard."
Dr Alice Green agrees.She also says that these children may find it hard to think for themselves when they are older."Parents are trying to plan their kids' lives for them.When these kids are adults,they might find it difficult to plan things for themselves."Parents should learn to give their kids a bit more time to themselves.On the one hand,children need organized activities.On the other hand,they also need time and freedom to relax,and they need time to do things by themselves.