When, as a freshman first entered College, I fear that they do well in school. I fear alone, because I was the first time away from his family. Around here are people I don't know, and they don't know me. I have to make friends with them, perhaps on the course I want to learn to compete with them on the score. They are smarter than I do? I keep up with them? They will accept me?
I quickly realized that my life now depends on my own. If I want to succeed in school, I would have to draw up a study plan. I have to adjust the time spent on learning and time spent on social networks. I have to decide when to go to bed, when what you eat, when to drink, what people friendly. I have to own answers to these questions.
At the beginning of life somewhat difficult. I made a mistake on the use of time. I spend too much time on making friends. I'm still on how to select the first friends in college made a few errors.
But soon I had control of his own life. I did arrive on time, complete and submit the first job on, and the fairly good results through the previous exam. In addition, I also made some friend, together with them I feel very comfortable, I can tell I am worried about them. I have built a really belongs to my own routine--a routine to meet my needs.
The result, I started from a different point of view of my own. I began to regard themselves as responsible for their own people responsible to friends and family. Everything to make their own decisions and see the decision ultimately proved to be a wise decision, this feeling is very good. I guess that's what people mean by "grow" part of it.
What about my life in the future? At this stage of life, I'm really not sure my life's journey will eventually heading, I really don't know what I will do in the next few years. But I know that I can deal with the future, because I have successfully jumped over this important obstacles in my life: I have finished the feelings from a dependent family members support to a transition to a person responsible for their own people.