我們來說下marry的用法：
1.當(dāng)“嫁、娶”講時,可用marry,marry為及物動詞,后面直接加賓語（marry sb.）.例如：Jane married Jone.珍妮嫁給了約翰.亦可用 to get married to (someone).例如：She got married to someone named Frank.她嫁給一個叫 Frank 的人.
2.當(dāng)“結(jié)婚”講時,marry為不及物動詞,尤其是在非正式英語中,一般用get married 或 be married,來表示結(jié)婚這件事.例如：My best friend got married last weekend.我最好的朋友上個周末結(jié)婚了.這兩個短語后又都可接介詞to+sb,表“和...結(jié)婚”.例如：She got married to a teacher./ She was married to a teacher.
注：這里我們一般不用get married with!這是習(xí)慣用法,約定俗成的.如果你非得用with,那就用marry的名詞形式marriage.例如：Her marriage with John is successful .她和約翰的婚姻是成功的.
3.關(guān)于你說的get married with,在第二點我已說過,是錯的!所以很遺憾,不可能找到說明它正確的證據(jù).不過卻有一個短語叫 to be married with children,是表示“已經(jīng)結(jié)婚生子了”.例如:She's married with children to Joey.她和 Joey 已經(jīng)結(jié)婚,并有孩子了.還有一個短語為marry up with,表示“結(jié)合、配合”例如：Jordan was married up with a relation.喬丹和一個親戚結(jié)了婚.
希望我的回答對你能有些幫助!:-)