It is widely acknowledged that to be selfless is a great virtue. Selflessness is taught to be the quality of a great person, to be always giving expecting nothing in return, and to put the needs and wants of others' above our own. One might ask why this characteristic in a human is so desirable. Many people would agree that the person appears to be nice; she or he is a nice person who does the right thing. 人們普遍認(rèn)為無(wú)私是一種美德.我們被教導(dǎo)無(wú)私是一個(gè)出色人物的品質(zhì),總是付出、不求回報(bào),急人所急、想人所想.我們可能要問(wèn)為什么人的這種品質(zhì)如此為人推崇,許多人的答案會(huì)是因?yàn)檫@是好人做的事,這個(gè)人總是做正確的事情.
For example, our common sense and conscience tells us that it is not good or right to steal, lie, cheat, or hurt other people.Times don't change by themselves, we change them. Be kind to others and savour the kindness showered in return.比如,常識(shí)和良心告訴我們,偷竊、撒謊、欺騙、傷害他人是不對(duì)的.時(shí)代不會(huì)改變,是我們?nèi)祟?lèi)改變了一切.對(duì)別人好,也常常會(huì)收獲善意.
One way to live a selfless lifestyle is to manage anger through selfless thinking. Anger can be controlled by shifting attention from one's own desires to the needs and feelings of others. But like many other things, selfless lifestyle requires strong commitment and peseverance and will to keep learning and growing.一種無(wú)私生活的方式就是運(yùn)用無(wú)私的思考方式來(lái)克制自己的憤怒.通過(guò)將注意力從個(gè)人的欲望轉(zhuǎn)移到他人的需求和感受,就可以克制自己的怒氣.但是就像許多其他事情一樣,無(wú)私的生活方式需要堅(jiān)持、投入,愿意不斷學(xué)習(xí)、不斷成長(zhǎng)