Reason is a necessary personility for everyone,we must learn to deal with things rationally.
Tseng Kuo-fan once told his brother that met grievances to "knocked out teeth and swallow the blood." Previously always know,bad not so good,plenty of money to offend people.Unfortunately,his temper is not so good,it is the indulgence of their own!Living life,patience is a must have encountered some of his things stand,we must first calm,not excited.There are some things to talk about point of view,to have people in all a good thing.
People Can not be too arrogant,or doomed to failure.Many people when things were going in you for your good words,behavior no comment,a little more in mind in the future so when you stress to your knife - how powerful people!Have pointed out the error of their people are true friends,will only compliment or slander you,the best of their psychological defense.
People Can not hard-edged,to know how to hide,to understand the convergence,in order to "spend time on is not round is not open."
People should learn to be tolerant of their own people in harm,in fact to your lessons on life,if you are on her classes,sooner or later someone will give you the.Tolerance is the salvation of man,for already a victory.
In fact,the biggest enemy is always yourself,to restrain themselves,experience their own sense,and rely on their own,that is,his own defeat.
中文：
理智,成大事者所必須,一定要學(xué)會理智處理事情.
曾國藩曾經(jīng)對他弟弟說,遇到委屈要"打落牙齒和血吞".以前總是不懂,脾氣不那么好,得罪人真不少.可惜現(xiàn)在脾氣還不是那么好,實(shí)在是對自己的放縱!人生在世,忍耐是必須的,遇到某些自己受不了的事,首先要冷靜,不要激動.有些事看談點(diǎn),于人于己都是好事.
人不能太傲氣,否則注定要失敗.很多人在你順境的時候?qū)δ愕牟缓醚哉?行為沒什么評論,有點(diǎn)更是記在心里,將來等你逆境的時候給你一刀－－多么厲害的人!對自己有錯誤就指出的人是真正的朋友,只會恭維或只會誹謗你的人,最好對其有心理防線.
人不能鋒芒畢露,要懂得隱藏,懂得收斂,要做到"月未圓時花未開".
人要學(xué)會寬容,對自己于傷害的人,實(shí)際上是在給你上人生的課,如果你上她的課,遲早會有人給你上的.寬容對人是超度,對己是勝利.
其實(shí)最大的敵人始終是自己,要克制自己,歷練自己的理智,靠的就是自己,就是自己戰(zhàn)勝自己.