We know that helping those who are in trouble is always regarded as a traditional chinese moral.However people have to know when the need is just for some minority`s[mai'nrti] benefit and against most...不要太長(zhǎng)。。。謝謝We know that helping those who are in trouble is always regarded as a traditional chinese moral. However people have to know when the need is just for some minority`s[mai'nrti] benefit and against most people`s interests, or when it is immoral or illegal, people should not hesitate to say no. But today I will not talk about this. What I will say is just about our daily life. Sometimes it is necessary to say no just for ourselves as well as for our loved ones. For example,when your best friend ask you to go shopping, but you are really tied. It is ok to say no. when your friends seek your advice on their clothes,it is okay to tell your real fellings if they look not very good in those clothes.