英語翻譯
Let me give you an illustration.You walk up to the check-out person at Wal-Mart and they respond to you in somewhat of a gruff manner.At this point you have a choice:shall I respond "in kind" or shall I extend love?To respond in kind would be to say,"I don't know why you are being so huffy.Isn't it your job to 'serve me'?" Or something equally as loving like,"Well you're a friendly one,aren't you?" Loving is responding to these irritations with understanding and love,"rough day?"
Or maybe more to the point.We're sitting in church and someone walks by us and doesn't acknowledge us!We can be offended at how arrogant and snooty they are or we can shrug it off and assume that they didn't see us,or were thinking about something else.Someone doesn't ask us to help or participate in something.We can get made and feel we have been deliberately excluded or we can conclude that they are not aware of our interest in helping or being involved.
We've talked about this before.If we spend our lives looking for offenses we will find them.Loving people resolve to see the irritations in life as bumps in the road heading to spiritual maturity.
It means Looking for Potential rather than Problems.Some of us (including myself) are really good at seeing potential problems.This is what makes us good detail persons.We prepare for contingencies.However,what is a strength in management and programming is a liability in relationships.These same people also tend to see the problems in people rather than the potential.
＊＊＊備注：我知道這篇文章有點長,但是對我來說很有意義.不管積分多少,還可以提高一下你的英語!（我就是想要提高我的漢語才提的）謝謝