a woman needs a man.this is the most natural rule of gender.but in my opinion,a woman needs two men,one husband for the family and one lover for pleasure.i think this is the most reasonable way of living.human nature is always double faced.you have to be serious at work but laxative off work.you have to smile at the one you hate meanwhile you can scold the one you love.so,a woman should have a husband for steady life,and a sweet lover for excited passion.